Courage

Courage is a relative thing. Fear is a pervasive element of the human condition.
We all feel fear in differing ways, so acts of courage differ between individuals depending on how fear is felt.

We all face the inevitable fate of death, deterioration, illness and loss without really knowing what the future holds. I am convinced that no one really knows what is ahead in life, nor in the afterlife, regardless of religious teaching or any special insight. If you are human, you face the same abyss of the unknown. Facing this takes real courage.

So it is in death that I have seen the most courageous acts demonstrated.
I saw my Grandfather of 96 endure a long battle with illness and pain while keeping a positive cheerful attitude. This was truly a courageous act in my opinion. He continued to find ways to help others even while he was dieing in a great deal of pain. He used to say, “getting old is not for sissies….” I admired his positive loving spirit in the face of a lot of pain and discomfort. He always smiled, had a kind word and kept a positive attitude of kindness to all. Facing our imminent demise with dignity and leaving the world with grace. This to me is a demonstration of true courage.